"So, the issue is not about his needs, or her needs, or love languages, or this or that- the issue is somehow, as individuals, you don’t understand the love of Jesus; you don’t understand Him, you don’t get Him, you haven’t been filled with that love. And, so that’s why you start fighting and arguing and quarreling, it’s because of that emptiness, that you want that other person to fill."

Francis Chan

Wow. 

(via jewelltin)